How correctly to get acquainted in the Network?
For anybody not a secret that the Internet – a place for acquaintance. But also here, on a level with sensations of anonymity and safety, certain rules and the decencies, which many lonely people should be observed, wishing to get acquainted, unfortunately, do not observe, because of what experience any difficulties. But about all one after another …
1. Not very well, for what purpose you have come on a dating site and that it for a site. It is important, that depending on the purpose the resource has been correctly chosen, and you behaved accordingly. For example, if you serious relations you do not need to go on the services intended for virtual flirtation interest. Certainly, and on such resource probably acquaintance to the future partner in life, but only as an exception.
2. Your behaviour on a site entirely should be based on the purpose of your acquaintance, and the questionnaire – to reflect an appropriate amount. The girl, wishing to find the man for relations should not expose erotic photos, and in the questionnaire to write about the sexual preferences. Sexuality – an integral part of an image. It is good, when it is, worse, when there is no. But to parade it it is not necessary at all since thus, you set the fashion dialogue, and the man will consider you only as sexual object and hardly as mother of its future children. Barefaced sexuality attracts, but only on one-two time.
3. It is not necessary to give out itself for other person. Only if you the virtual also do not plan to transfer acquaintance to a reality. Another's photos or their absence, the latent or incorrectly specified age – the similar facts can be hidden only for the time being. And the sense in it any is not present. If you in an image of other person have got acquainted with the girl or the guy actually it turns out that you have got acquainted not, and the hero thought up by you. It and its parametres have interested the interlocutor. If in plans there is a real meeting hardly the similar surprise will be pleasant unexpectedness. Unexpectedness – yes. Pleasant – is not present. As a result and you, and your new acquaintance will regret for a downtime, therefore the unique possible variant is even in a network to be oneself. It to be pleasant to all – it is not real. And having been oneself, always there is a chance to someone to be pleasant, and further with it to build relations.
4. Photos should be fresh without serious processing and a retouch. To expose unsuccessful photos – all the same, what to sign to itself a sentence, but chances to get acquainted with someone without a photo are equal to zero. Therefore, before to place the questionnaire on a dating site and to start to get acquainted, it is necessary to be puzzled with photosession. It is desirable professional, but it is not obligatory. In a shot there should be only you, without friends, colleagues and other companions. As a background it is not necessary to use a wall carpet what expensive and exclusive it was not. Also it is not necessary to be photographed against kitchen, at an entrance of the house and to photograph the reflexion in a mirror. It is better not to pose, differently risk to stare or pout that is obvious to you not to the person. Ask your photographer to catch the moments that you have turned out as much as possible naturally. And imperfection at all do not retouch. Always there is a chance to go too far so that the image on a photo will cease to coincide with a reality. Smile. The smile and pleasure decorate. Be critical, but are objective. If at you not an ideal figure – at all do not pose in a bathing suit or open clothes – it is better to leave similar photos for house archive. And certainly, it is not necessary to place on a dating site of a photo of five - ten years' prescription, especially if the body has got new rotundities and forms. If you are dissatisfied with yourselves – an occasion to reflect and start something to change. Then it is not necessary to hesitate of the photos.
5. People read biographical particulars. It is not necessary to think that wishing to get acquainted on the Internet, look only at photos. They too read questionnaires and sometimes the specified information are defining, therefore it is better not to be lazy and try to fill all offered fields as much as possible. It is not necessary to compose or say lies – truth will necessarily open. Nobody forbids you to place emphasis on your merits, interests and abilities. The formed, comprehensively developed person always is much more interesting than the one who is engaged in nothing, is interested in nothing. It should be meant. If you are engaged in nothing – are not fond, it is necessary to reflect that is interesting to you and than you would want to be engaged, but for this purpose always there was no time or the company. Write about it. Probably, someone too all life dreamt to be engaged in hand gliding or cultivation of buttercups, and it/it too did not have the company. There is a chance that will converge on this soil …
Besides a choice of a dating site and correct контентной the making questionnaire about which it has been written in the first part of article, it is necessary not to forget about worthy behaviour and a stay main objective on the resource chosen by you.
1. The Internet gives sensation of anonymity which on a dating site can be only on advantage since gives the chance to show the initiative, both to men, and women. Refusal in real is perceived much more painfully, than игнор in a network, т.ч. Can safely write to all who has attracted. Especially, if you of the first/first have seen the interesting, attractive person. The probability is high that he/it and will not notice you.
2. The Internet gives sensation of anonymity, but does not grant to you the right to rudeness. If the person was pleasant – write to it or answer its message. If it was not pleasant – to it/it to know absolutely not necessarily: for what reason. Especially, if it or it even did not try to communicate with you. Similar roughness for which it is impossible to answer – destiny of weak, diffident losers.
3. If someone has written to you before to be engaged in the sample formal reply, familiarise with its/its biographical particulars and a photo. Probably, this person deserves more friendly or detailed answer. Dialogue by terse phrases quickly comes to naught, since the interlocutor does not feel your interest or understands that in parallel with it you still communicate with ten person or are engaged in something for you more important and interesting, and to it answer up to a point.
4. It is not necessary to ignore absolutely interlocutors without photos. In this case it is necessary to pay attention to biographical particulars and messages which are written by this person. If the information specified in the questionnaire is interesting, and texts of messages – are logical, decent and polite, such person should be learnt better. Probably, it/it holds a serious post and does not want to "be shone", is possible – is not photogenic/is photogenic and does not want to spoil impression the unsuccessful photos. But also it is not necessary to be encouraged and draw an image of unearthly beauty strongly. Dialogue with the invisible being is better be not to tightening then strongly not to be disappointed. It is possible to look against each other on скайпу or to ask to throw off photos on a personal mail box or to give the reference to an account in a social network. If the invisible friend refuses all offered variants and does not suggest to arrive and seem alive, it is better to stop similar dialogue. Probably, the person is not free, gives out itself for the one whom is not or business in physical defects, so serious that personal qualities in any way do not compensate external ugliness. Not to be disappointed, not to try to satisfy the curiosity persistently better.
5. Being at home, but sitting on the Internet, it is impossible to feel in absolute safety, because in a virtual reality all same people, as in a reality. And besides lonely, perspective, wishing relations of people there are also swindlers. Therefore, getting acquainted on the Internet, it is necessary to be always on the alert and not to trust itself or the property to new acquaintances. It is not necessary to be afraid of dating sites, it is necessary to be always only vigilant, because a virtual reality – reflexion of our life in which not all so is cloudless.
6. If you замотивированы on result, it is not necessary to tighten with personal meeting. Even correspondence should подпитываться real emotions to the addressee which at the adequate, mentally healthy person cannot arise to the one whom never in life saw. Besides the addressee after any time will be tired of "emotional bond" in a network. Having agreed on a meeting or it having offered, you only confirm that want to get acquainted, serious intentions are interested in the given concrete person and at you. Probably, having met, you will understand that it not that person. Not because it said lies something about itself(himself) or has laid out not the photos. Not because at you about it (about it) has developed incorrectly, representation. What to do, we so are arranged that are always inclined to think out, finish thinking about something to myself. In that case searches will proceed further.
7. If in parallel you correspond at once with very considerable quantity of men or women, it is better to reduce this quantity, having cleaned from it all:
You cannot remember what names in any way;
That, on a meeting or appointment with which you will go, only if there will be absolutely nothing to be engaged,
With what even insignificant errors in messages you strongly irritate because they for you it is more important (error), than the text and sense,
Those who does not show to you a great interest, writes phrases on duty, does not set to you questions about your family, formation, interests and dreams.
When exclude all above-stated – there will be at most 4-5 persons. With them it is possible to continue dialogue and as soon as possible to pass in a reality.
For anybody not a secret that the Internet – a place for acquaintance. But also here, on a level with sensations of anonymity and safety, certain rules and the decencies, which many lonely people should be observed, wishing to get acquainted, unfortunately, do not observe, because of what experience any difficulties. But about all one after another …1. Not very well, for what purpose you have come on a dating site and that it for a site. It is important, that depending on the purpose the resource has been correctly chosen, and you behaved accordingly. For example, if you serious relations you do not need to go on the services intended for virtual flirtation interest. Certainly, and on such resource probably acquaintance to the future partner in life, but only as an exception.
2. Your behaviour on a site entirely should be based on the purpose of your acquaintance, and the questionnaire – to reflect an appropriate amount. The girl, wishing to find the man for relations should not expose erotic photos, and in the questionnaire to write about the sexual preferences. Sexuality – an integral part of an image. It is good, when it is, worse, when there is no. But to parade it it is not necessary at all since thus, you set the fashion dialogue, and the man will consider you only as sexual object and hardly as mother of its future children. Barefaced sexuality attracts, but only on one-two time.
3. It is not necessary to give out itself for other person. Only if you the virtual also do not plan to transfer acquaintance to a reality. Another's photos or their absence, the latent or incorrectly specified age – the similar facts can be hidden only for the time being. And the sense in it any is not present. If you in an image of other person have got acquainted with the girl or the guy actually it turns out that you have got acquainted not, and the hero thought up by you. It and its parametres have interested the interlocutor. If in plans there is a real meeting hardly the similar surprise will be pleasant unexpectedness. Unexpectedness – yes. Pleasant – is not present. As a result and you, and your new acquaintance will regret for a downtime, therefore the unique possible variant is even in a network to be oneself. It to be pleasant to all – it is not real. And having been oneself, always there is a chance to someone to be pleasant, and further with it to build relations.
4. Photos should be fresh without serious processing and a retouch. To expose unsuccessful photos – all the same, what to sign to itself a sentence, but chances to get acquainted with someone without a photo are equal to zero. Therefore, before to place the questionnaire on a dating site and to start to get acquainted, it is necessary to be puzzled with photosession. It is desirable professional, but it is not obligatory. In a shot there should be only you, without friends, colleagues and other companions. As a background it is not necessary to use a wall carpet what expensive and exclusive it was not. Also it is not necessary to be photographed against kitchen, at an entrance of the house and to photograph the reflexion in a mirror. It is better not to pose, differently risk to stare or pout that is obvious to you not to the person. Ask your photographer to catch the moments that you have turned out as much as possible naturally. And imperfection at all do not retouch. Always there is a chance to go too far so that the image on a photo will cease to coincide with a reality. Smile. The smile and pleasure decorate. Be critical, but are objective. If at you not an ideal figure – at all do not pose in a bathing suit or open clothes – it is better to leave similar photos for house archive. And certainly, it is not necessary to place on a dating site of a photo of five - ten years' prescription, especially if the body has got new rotundities and forms. If you are dissatisfied with yourselves – an occasion to reflect and start something to change. Then it is not necessary to hesitate of the photos.
5. People read biographical particulars. It is not necessary to think that wishing to get acquainted on the Internet, look only at photos. They too read questionnaires and sometimes the specified information are defining, therefore it is better not to be lazy and try to fill all offered fields as much as possible. It is not necessary to compose or say lies – truth will necessarily open. Nobody forbids you to place emphasis on your merits, interests and abilities. The formed, comprehensively developed person always is much more interesting than the one who is engaged in nothing, is interested in nothing. It should be meant. If you are engaged in nothing – are not fond, it is necessary to reflect that is interesting to you and than you would want to be engaged, but for this purpose always there was no time or the company. Write about it. Probably, someone too all life dreamt to be engaged in hand gliding or cultivation of buttercups, and it/it too did not have the company. There is a chance that will converge on this soil …
Besides a choice of a dating site and correct контентной the making questionnaire about which it has been written in the first part of article, it is necessary not to forget about worthy behaviour and a stay main objective on the resource chosen by you.
1. The Internet gives sensation of anonymity which on a dating site can be only on advantage since gives the chance to show the initiative, both to men, and women. Refusal in real is perceived much more painfully, than игнор in a network, т.ч. Can safely write to all who has attracted. Especially, if you of the first/first have seen the interesting, attractive person. The probability is high that he/it and will not notice you.
2. The Internet gives sensation of anonymity, but does not grant to you the right to rudeness. If the person was pleasant – write to it or answer its message. If it was not pleasant – to it/it to know absolutely not necessarily: for what reason. Especially, if it or it even did not try to communicate with you. Similar roughness for which it is impossible to answer – destiny of weak, diffident losers.
3. If someone has written to you before to be engaged in the sample formal reply, familiarise with its/its biographical particulars and a photo. Probably, this person deserves more friendly or detailed answer. Dialogue by terse phrases quickly comes to naught, since the interlocutor does not feel your interest or understands that in parallel with it you still communicate with ten person or are engaged in something for you more important and interesting, and to it answer up to a point.
4. It is not necessary to ignore absolutely interlocutors without photos. In this case it is necessary to pay attention to biographical particulars and messages which are written by this person. If the information specified in the questionnaire is interesting, and texts of messages – are logical, decent and polite, such person should be learnt better. Probably, it/it holds a serious post and does not want to "be shone", is possible – is not photogenic/is photogenic and does not want to spoil impression the unsuccessful photos. But also it is not necessary to be encouraged and draw an image of unearthly beauty strongly. Dialogue with the invisible being is better be not to tightening then strongly not to be disappointed. It is possible to look against each other on скайпу or to ask to throw off photos on a personal mail box or to give the reference to an account in a social network. If the invisible friend refuses all offered variants and does not suggest to arrive and seem alive, it is better to stop similar dialogue. Probably, the person is not free, gives out itself for the one whom is not or business in physical defects, so serious that personal qualities in any way do not compensate external ugliness. Not to be disappointed, not to try to satisfy the curiosity persistently better.
5. Being at home, but sitting on the Internet, it is impossible to feel in absolute safety, because in a virtual reality all same people, as in a reality. And besides lonely, perspective, wishing relations of people there are also swindlers. Therefore, getting acquainted on the Internet, it is necessary to be always on the alert and not to trust itself or the property to new acquaintances. It is not necessary to be afraid of dating sites, it is necessary to be always only vigilant, because a virtual reality – reflexion of our life in which not all so is cloudless.
6. If you замотивированы on result, it is not necessary to tighten with personal meeting. Even correspondence should подпитываться real emotions to the addressee which at the adequate, mentally healthy person cannot arise to the one whom never in life saw. Besides the addressee after any time will be tired of "emotional bond" in a network. Having agreed on a meeting or it having offered, you only confirm that want to get acquainted, serious intentions are interested in the given concrete person and at you. Probably, having met, you will understand that it not that person. Not because it said lies something about itself(himself) or has laid out not the photos. Not because at you about it (about it) has developed incorrectly, representation. What to do, we so are arranged that are always inclined to think out, finish thinking about something to myself. In that case searches will proceed further.
7. If in parallel you correspond at once with very considerable quantity of men or women, it is better to reduce this quantity, having cleaned from it all:
You cannot remember what names in any way;
That, on a meeting or appointment with which you will go, only if there will be absolutely nothing to be engaged,
With what even insignificant errors in messages you strongly irritate because they for you it is more important (error), than the text and sense,
Those who does not show to you a great interest, writes phrases on duty, does not set to you questions about your family, formation, interests and dreams.
When exclude all above-stated – there will be at most 4-5 persons. With them it is possible to continue dialogue and as soon as possible to pass in a reality.
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