How to get a job dreamsHow to get a job dreams

How to get a job dreams

Let's admit, the person was defined with business of the life. Remained most a little: to find the employer who is ready to offer comprehensible conditions, and the main thing, – to take you! But here an ill luck: employers suitable are, and the young expert do not take. Why the such occurs?

Well, for example, because the young expert himself is confused. It, not skilled, goes on interviews with the first not the indicative resume. He does not know that about itself to tell, and as, forgive for a pun, itself to sell.

And how itself to sell?

First, to cease to be afraid! Timid the employer does not love. They a little that can achieve in life. And here courageous, even brave (moderately), strong-willed, what put before itself the purposes, reach them and aspire to большему, is always a find. Even not skilled, but employers are often ready to train the courageous expert. Because in the market it is not enough good shots.

Secondly, to make the correct indicative resume. It makes sense to remember everything that can be useful to the chosen post.

Probably, it is necessary to mention the youthful achievements. Naturally, they should be approaching on sense to required vacancy. For example, the information: «Has created and successfully realised hundred models of planes on programmed control on base of a circle of aircraft modelling» at employment the aircraft designer, will be very much even by the way!

By the way, inspectors for work love, when achievements are specified in clear, измеримых indicators. Remarkably, if it is made in figures! To the manager on the sales, declaring the successes in the field, it is recommended to concretise all. For example: «Within three months at the expense of effective telemarketing has raised sales on 15 %». Naturally, at such formulation it is necessary to understand, how calculation was made.

Other valuable recommendations about resume drawing up can be received at workers of personnel agencies. And it is not obligatory for money. Anybody did not cancel simple human relations!

When has made the indicative resume, – it is necessary помедитировать over it. To believe that is told: I actually it have reached and I am able to do. Yes, yes, happens uneasy to believe in beauty of the formulated words! Because the praise to itself is often unusual and even confuses.

As it is good to self-assured person to think over possible variants of answers to widespread questions.

«What advantages at you is?» Or «that is your main advantages?» – here it is very good questions. Here it is possible to praise itself long. Even it is inadequate. Because, as my chief spoke: «In business of 25 % of a bluff it is normal».

«What lacks at you is?» Attention, the employer has decided to check up your adequacy. And here very well fairly to list some lacks. But it is not a lot of. And it is obligatory to block their advantages. Look it can approximately so: «I do not know the program 1С. But quickly I acquire the new information, and in particular, quickly I master computer programs (it is possible to give an example)».

Well etc. the List of widespread questions can be understood quickly on a course of visiting of interviews.

It is important to develop in itself the correct relation to refusals. For example, the manager on sales has a rule: «Five согласий on hundred refusals – norm». But do not go in cycles in this statistics. Because at everyone it the and always is a field for its improvement.

Ask questions to the employer. After all not only he chooses the worker, but also its expert. How many years your company exists in the market? What social policy at the company in relation to pregnant women? (This question, unfortunately, in the Russian validity courageously the man) can set only. How you develop the experts? What prospects at me career growth? What mutual relations support in collective? What achievements of workers encourage and how? Etc. But, not strongly be fond. The overestimated requirements can to strain the personnel officer, in turn. Think over that for you it is the most important.

By the way, about importance. Here it was necessary to begin with it. Before searching for work, it is necessary to formulate its basic characteristics. It is necessary to understand that search. Enough 5-7 points for the answer to a question: what it, your dream? And most truly to be guided by the company in which it is ready to work for years, instead of to jump as a grasshopper from one grass in another. It already then if it will not be pleasant – will leave. But it is better, that it was pleasant at once.

And here when were defined with the company of the life, be not afraid to be persevering. Happens, the employer refuses. And you all organism feel that is necessary here. Go here while the employer will not believe that you and are their happiness. Well, or until you will be convinced that «well and fools».

I know history about the girl who very much wanted to be arranged for desirable work. But there was no main requirement: knowledge of the necessary program. Also it is the candidate at all has not confused. As well as that have not accepted it neither from the first interview, nor from the second, even from the third.

The dream is more important, than trifles of life everyone there! And for its realisation it is possible to study also the program, both to tell lies, and to force the employer to believe that you are necessary to them.

The pretender also was engaged in it. She has achieved interview on which about itself has told lies. A pier, the program I know, I am able to work. Умелицу, thanks to persistence and inflexibility (which has bribed the surprised personnel officers and the chief of department) have accepted. And then the girl had to study a subject at night.
Certainly, the chief has quickly seen that the new employee has played a cunning trick at employment. Also has asked it a direct question:
– You do not know?!
– I do not know! – the girl has smartly answered. – but I will learn and I will understand!
– I give to you exactly month.

And it took this month, and has mastered all necessary functions, and has surpassed itself! How much I in a course of affairs, now this respectable lady – one of managing directors of the given company. Here to you and aspiration to the purposes …

So, love itself, expensive readers and reach all desirable tops, after all all in this life is possible!

Before accident there were 90 days

Before accident there were 90 days

The European Union has three months for search of an exit from financial crisis. After the lapse of this term the markets will simply cease to react to all efforts of Bruxelles though the euro, most likely, nevertheless will manage to be rescued. Such opinion was stated by the known financier and investor George Soros.

Acting at an economic forum in Italian Trento, Soros has given a number of councils about an overcoming the crisis. First of all, as he said, Europe needs to enter urgently insurance of bank contributions to stop outflow of deposits which has already concerned the peripheral countries. Besides, banks should get direct access to financial support of the European mechanism of stability which will earn in the summer of this year.

"The countries with the big debts need to reduce financial expenses. There are various ways to achieve it, but all of them need active support from party Bundesbanka (the Central Bank of Germany) and the German government", - Soros has told, having noticed that Germany still should be convinced of correctness of this policy.

Besides, Soros has expressed hope that Greeks during re-elections in parliament on June, 17th "will be frightened enough by prospect of an exception of the European union" to vote for those who is ready to observe the operating anti-recessionary agreement. At the same time "any government (Greece) cannot satisfy a condition, and the Greek crisis will come to the culmination this autumn", the financier has declared.

"By then the economy of Germany also will weaken, therefore Merkel will be even more difficult, than today, to convince Germans to incur any additional obligations concerning Europe", - he has warned.
The summit of EU planned for the end of June, will come to the end with acceptance of a package of measures which become the compromise for everything, Soros considers. However these measures will be to turn absolutely insufficiently back crisis tendencies. "It means that these measures again will give time simplification, but tendencies remain. We are in a critical point. After three months the markets will demand большего, but the authorities cannot execute their inquiries", - the investor has noted.

At the same time Soros has expressed opinion that the euro will manage to be rescued, as its crash became accident not only for "the peripheral" EU countries, but also for Germany. "Return to DM will cost, most likely, Germany deprivations of the export markets, not to mention political consequences. Thus, Germany, most likely, will make everything to rescue euro, but no more that", - was concluded by Soros.

And you can grow rich "on Kijosaki"?

And you can grow rich "on Kijosaki"?

Robert Kijosaki, the American of a Japanese origin, the outstanding businessman and the writer, the author of set of books from whom the most popular – «the Rich father, the poor father», has excited the world idea that each person at desire can reach huge riches.

And for this purpose it is not necessary neither to get education, nor to spend all life in persistent work. It is necessary to find only idea which will gain for you money, and then to force money to work on itself! The set of the people, Kijosaki inspired by books, dream to depart from affairs young and rich to live happily and enjoy all good things of life.

But why in practice the original riches still get only to units?

In brief it is possible to present Robert Kijosaki's all system in the form of several rules.

Rule 1. You should passionately want to grow rich. The small, weak desire will not lead you to success. You should begin to hate with all the heart poverty, a lack of money, and it is literally to light up idea to find financial freedom. Only this passion and internal fire are capable to lead you to riches.

Rule 2. You should be firmly assured that riches are worthy and by all means will reach it. If for you thoughts of type «To me never are characteristic to grow rich», «I do not presume to myself expensive things», «It is necessary to save», etc. – you and will not grow rich. To become rich, it is necessary to start to think as the rich person, namely: «I can gain money», «I presume to myself anything you like», etc.

Rule 3. It is necessary for you to get rid of fear of loss of money. To grow rich – it is necessary to put up constantly money, only then they will work on you. It is risk, and on this way losses are inevitable. The majority of people cannot grow rich just because too take hard loss of money and are afraid of it. Whether you nine consecutive times are ready to fail and lose money if on the tenth time will win, and the prize will pay back all your losses? The one who safely answers "yes", has chances of the big riches.

Rule 4. You should cut down the expenses, to postpone purchase of luxury goods till the best times: the rich person at first puts up money in the investment, into business and only then buys something for itself. The majority of people arrive very much the other way: buy expensive things to look rich. It is possible to much, but to look rich – does not mean to be rich: if you have expensive car, apartment, a country house, but all it is bought on tick or on last money and you do not have available assets which would work on you you are not rich, and are poor.

Rule 5. You should reduce passives and to increase actives. Passives are all that demands expenses, without bringing any profits: the apartment, the house (if you live in it, instead of rent), the car (if you do not earn with its help of money) etc. Actives are all that brings to you money: business, investments, the real estate rented, etc. If at you absolutely is not present actives or them too little – you will not grow rich.

Rule 6. You should be ready to leave work on hiring and to be engaged in own business. Only so you can create quite good actives and earn enough of money for the future investments – after all the present riches is created only by investment. Absence of the starting capital should not stop you – remember that we live in an information century when for successful business the good idea is important first of all. If you in a condition to think up how to make something good for a considerable quantity of people with the minimum expenses and with the maximum profit – at you there are chances to lay the foundation for successful business.

Rule 7. Even if you while have not enough money, you should master investment art. Raise the financial literacy, study all possible ways of an investment of money – in share investment funds, in actions, banks, real estate, precious metals etc. Start to invest gradually, learn to get from these investments fast profit (for example, buying and selling actions), and in due course under condition of development of own business you can become large enough investor to sell the business, to depart from affairs and to live only on incomes of investments. Here then there will come for you desired financial freedom.

Rule 8. This rule, maybe, the most important: you should love money very much. You should think constantly of them, speak about them, search for new ways of their augmentation. It should be for you interesting, fascinating employment. If everything is not so interesting to you that is connected with the finance, – you have some chances of the present big riches.
Robert Kijosaki admits one of the books that once wanted to be the pilot. But business, transactions with real estate, investments and the big money has appeared for it more attractive. And what present calling – to fly, will not refuse it for any billions. In the most different spheres of activity it is possible to meet the people, ready to be engaged in favourite business even it is free – and who will dare to name from unfortunate even if they are rather poor?

To find calling – already happiness, it is simple at everyone the. To become rather rich, it is necessary to have calling to it, as well as to any another matter. In books on financial literacy it is a lot of good advice which can put into practice it is valid any person and, probably, to raise the well-being.

But you will grow rich really only in the event that money really becomes your credos.

How to open children's dancing studio

How to open children's dancing studio
If you are fond of dances and you have an experience with children it is necessary to reflect on creation of own children's dancing studio. Demand for services of the teacher of dances for children is invariably high.

By working out of the concept of your studio of dances think over the basic directions with which you will work. Among parents the waltz, a tango, a foxtrot, a quickstep, the Latin American dances use the greatest demand. Teenagers prefer club dances, hip-hop, a jazz modernist style, a rock'n'roll and etc. to Children of preschool age teach rhythmics and choreography bases (in the form of dances, games and exercises).

Even if you do not plan to search for means for opening of own project, first of all, it is necessary to make the detailed business plan which will allow to define the size of initial expenses on the organisation of such kind of business. Opening of own dancing studio for children does not demand the big capital investments in the event that you possess corresponding skills and are going to conduct lessons independently.

Then, in process of development of your business, it is possible to consider possibility of search of teachers which become either your partners, or hired workers. Necessarily think over the training program in your studio. There is no sense to try to capture all dancing styles and genres. At the small budget it is more reasonable to choose narrower specialisation (both in directions, and on age groups of your pupils).

As well as in any other business connected with teaching, key value qualification of the teacher has, its ability to carry away pupils, its skill and professionalism. In this case new clients will come to your school on responses of the friends and acquaintances, and then will recommend you as the talented teacher.

The basic items of expenses is a rent of a premise, purchase of necessary stock and technics. In most cases it is more favourable to rent a premise in regional recreation centre and creativity or a small hall at the school located nearby. The big advantage of rent of a premise in educational institution or the creativity house consists in absence of necessity independently to receive various inquiries and permissions from supervising bodies.

Time when lessons in studio are conducted, depends on age of children on which it is calculated. Kids of preschool age usually are engaged in the first change – from 9.00 till. Children are more senior visit employment during the period from 16.00 till. After seven the senior groups are engaged. In target (as a rule, on Saturday) employment are usually spent from 12.00 till.

Preliminary learn, whether is in area where you are going to open the studio, similar dancing schools. If the competition is absent, and demand for such services high enough, safely conclude the lease contract.

To pay expenses on rent it is possible from monthly payments for employment from pupils. Further in process of increase in quantity of pupils it will be possible to conclude the contract of long-term rent of a premise. In the event that you remove a hall in the creativity house, there there should be all necessary for employment – ballet machine tools, floor-mats, mirrors and etc. Differently it is necessary to be spent for equipment acquisition. There are certain requirements to a hall for dances:

    The floor should be covered nonrigid амортизирующим by a covering (an optimum variant – not varnished parquet);
    Mirrors should be not less than 1,5 (for children) – 2 (for adults) metres in height and to have as less as possible joints which lead to reflexion distortion;
    Irrespective of, in what direction you work, in a hall machine tools should be established.

Besides it, for employment the musical centre is required to you.

When a hall for employment by dances and all necessary equipment are found, it is necessary to reflect on how you will involve new clients in the studio. Prefer cheap, but to not less effective ways of advancement of the services. For example, if your studio of dances is located in dormitory area, it is possible to print and spread out on mail boxes of the houses of the announcement located nearby about its opening.

In each city which quantity of the population exceeds one million person, exists more than hundred various dancing studios and schools. Average profitability of such kind of business – 30-50 %.

Many businessmen opening studios of dances, register them as public organisations which services on a gratuitous basis render. The basic profit of such studio is made by payments of members of this "public organisation" which are not taxed. But if you choose such variant, preliminary consult with the lawyer.

How to open courses on training of dogs

How to open courses on training of dogs

If you have vocational education, a wide experience of work with four-footed pupils and, the main thing, you love animals, this business for you. He does not demand the big initial investments. But these services will be always demanded among owners of dogs. Train, contrary to a popular belief, not only dogs of office breeds, but also decorative and even not purebred animals.

Cynologists are the experts studying breeds and behaviour of dogs, prosecuting subjects of their correct cultivation, feeding, the maintenance and training. There are some kinds of specialisations of cynologists:

    The cynologist-instructor/trainer – the expert in preparation of dogs in all directions;
    The figurant – the expert in preparation of dogs to protectively-guard duty;
    хэндлер – the expert in preparation of dogs to participation in exhibitions.

The documents confirming your qualification will be necessary for rendering of such services: the certificate of the instructor-trainer, the figurant, the expert on working qualities and sports of the Russian Film logic Federation. If you do not have these certificates, it is necessary to reflect on their reception. Trust to the expert who has passed special training, there will be more, and a cost of its services, accordingly, above.

Special courses for training of trainers are in big cities. Training terms on them make from 4-5 months, and cost from 10 thousand roubles for a course. After the termination of courses and training passage on a platform the competitor receives the certificate, the right granting to it to work as the instructor.

Employment with dogs can be spent as in the territory, and in-home at the client or on special platforms (last variant is more preferable). As a rule, the trainer offers two variants of work – or group trainings in which owners of dogs take active part together with the pupils, or individual employment of the trainer with one dog.

Quite often instructors offer additional services (certainly, for an additional payment): for example, delivery of dogs to a training platform and back to owners. Different kinds of training have advantages and lacks.

So, at independent training of a dog on a training platform active participation of its owner not only three times in a week is supposed during employment, but also at home for effect fastening. Not all clients have enough on it time and desire. And without additional employment the dog quickly loses the got skills. In the event that training of a dog occurs in territory of the instructor without participation of the owner, the last does not need to waste time and be present on employment.

With a dog the skilled cynologist, instead of the owner under the direction of the expert is engaged, therefore training process passes more effectively and faster (as a whole, about two weeks). Upon termination of training one more course of a practical training is spent. This time not for a dog, and for its owner. Quite often trainers training animals in the territory, offer additional service – day board. The owner can bring a dog on a venue of trainings in the morning and take away in its evening.

Pay attention: professional trainers do not conduct on one-two lessons. They conclude the contract at once on all course. If it is a question of training of a guard dog, upon termination of a course the owner together with a dog passes examination to the expert to receive the diploma of the uniform sample. No means always it is possible to pass this examination from the first attempt, but it does not testify in any way to level of the instructor.

The second the most considerable, after training and certificate reception, the item of expenses – purchase of necessary equipment, including protective overalls, a training sleeve for statement of a grasp at the dogs, special trousers for the trainer, and stock. Whistles concern the last for training, разметочные tags, аппортировочные subjects, stacks, плетки and whips for training, barriers to trainings and competitions, shelter to the figurant. Additional leads, muzzles, шлейки and collars in certain cases can be necessary.


Sale of the accompanying goods (collars, leads, шлеек, the educational literature), and also own lectures and materials in printing or in a video-format can become an additional source of the income of the trainer.

Courses on training of dogs – business seasonal. In spite of the fact that employment can be spent and to winter time, nevertheless, the majority of orders is necessary for the spring, summer and autumn. The time of recovery of outlay makes from 5-6 months, depending on initial investments.

The business: antique shop Opening

The business: antique shop Opening

Acquisition of antiquarian things is was and remains to one of the most reliable ways of an investment of means who allows to provide stable profit at a rate of 20-50 % annual. For this reason in a collecting of subjects of olden time are engaged not only very provided people as it is accepted to think, but also representatives of middle class.

The antiques world market shares on some segments. The biggest and perspective of them is a painting and a sculpture (over 40 %). Numismatics and букинистика are on the second place on sales volumes (20 %). The furniture and a various home decoration make 17 % from total amount of sales. Jewels – 15 %, and ancient cars – 8 %. The business connected with purchase and sale of the antiquarian goods, on profitableness takes the third place after trade in diamonds and oil.

Precisely to define volumes of this market in cost expression it is almost impossible, as most of all in similar business confidentiality is appreciated. Some experts name figures in limits from $1 billion to $1,5 billion

The business connected with purchase and sale of subjects of olden time, demands the big knowledge and experience. Percent of fakes in our country very high. The share of forgeries reaches 40-50 %. Therefore if you are fond of antiques, but are not the expert in its estimation you should or search for the present experts in this area, or to refuse idea about opening of own antique shop.

The assortment of your shop is the main thing on what all business keeps. Is better, if you can estimate authenticity and define approximate cost of antiques. Any error can lead to the big financial losses. Certainly, you can address for the help to the antiquary who constantly traces demand for those or other subjects of olden time, can spend a professional estimation of the goods and will give an authenticity guarantee. However services of the expert manage expensively enough. Cost of one consultation can make about 15 % from a total cost of the estimated goods.

Rather valuable things get on counters of antique shops or directly from their former owners, or through art dealers. The retail margin makes, as a rule, 300 % from procurement price. In certain cases the shop can even sell the goods without the margin if, for example, there is a possibility to catch the regular customer. The antique shop can accept also olden time subjects on the commission, raising for it to 25 % from goods cost.

Services in professional consultation and examination carrying out become additional sources of the income. To wait for fast profit it is not necessary. The enclosed means can return even in some years. According to the experts, seven of ten subjects of olden time got by shop of antiques, are on sale only after one-two year. However, owners of business console themselves in that cost of such kind of the goods only increases every year.

Profits most of all to antique shops are brought by painting sale. On the second place – ancient books. The price of the second-hand edition increases every year on 25-30 %. Ancient coins rise in price on 20 % annually. And retrocars bring to 15-17 % annual. Jewels concern a category «низкодоходного» antiques and marks. Their cost increases every year only by 5-7 %.

The premise under an antique shop should be spacious enough. To take some metres in shopping centre, of course, it is not meaningful. It should be the shop with a separate input, for example, on the apartment house ground floor. At once put in the estimate expenses on repair. The antique shop is not simply beautiful things on show-windows, it is special atmosphere of left time.

By interior design working out it is desirable to address to the expert who will consider all your wishes. Cost of rent of the small area (20-30 sq. m.) on the residential building ground floor will make from 20 thousand roubles and above, depending on region and a site of your shop (is the most optimum – city centre). Besides, the special trading equipment – the closed racks and show-windows is required to you.

The following on size of the item of expenses – insurance of your goods and activity licensing, and also a salary to workers. Services of the bookkeeper (there is no necessity to employ it for full time), one or two selling assistants who understand antiques be required to you. But, first of all, to you are necessary: the appraiser, the restorer and the manager on purchases (duties of the last, most likely, should be carried out at first to you).

The appraiser defines original cost of the goods, rejects fakes. The restorer spends preselling preparation of the goods as the most part of antiques which will bring to you on sale, will be not in the best condition. The manager on purchases searches for the goods on sale, placing announcements in newspapers, going round villages and villages in search of olden time subjects. It, perhaps, the most difficult and important part of work of all shop.

Obligatory licensing, the strict reporting and regular carrying out of inventories – the basic requirements to conducting antiquarian business. For advancement of the antique shop, of course, it is possible to use and traditional kinds of advertising – announcements in local specialised magazines, a signboard on a facade, drawing attention, outdoor advertising, advertising to television. However, it is not enough for successful work of it (and much from listed also it is at all useless).

The collecting of subjects of olden time is a hobby of the elite. In the business connected with sale of antiques, the good reputation and a personal contact is especially important. Big clients come not under announcements in newspapers, and under recommendations of acquaintances and-or experts. Therefore, if you want to become successful in the business, use not only standard advertising, but also all means Public Relations. Take part in thematic actions, visit auctions, communicate with experts and collectors.

Reflect on creation of own Internet shop. Cost of creation of such shop makes from 50 thousand roubles (if only you cannot make a site independently), but you quickly pay back all investments. Will give particular attention to quality of photos of the goods in your Internet shop. Do not save on the good technics and-or the photographer.

So, for opening of own shop of antiquarian things it is required to you: vocational education, knowledge and experience in this sphere, is a lot of patience (the unique goods cost more expensive in hundreds times of the goods of mass production, but also buy them so less often). The antique shop Time of recovery of outlay makes from one year.

How correctly to get acquainted in the Network?

How correctly to get acquainted in the Network?

For anybody not a secret that the Internet – a place for acquaintance. But also here, on a level with sensations of anonymity and safety, certain rules and the decencies, which many lonely people should be observed, wishing to get acquainted, unfortunately, do not observe, because of what experience any difficulties. But about all one after another …

1. Not very well, for what purpose you have come on a dating site and that it for a site. It is important, that depending on the purpose the resource has been correctly chosen, and you behaved accordingly. For example, if you serious relations you do not need to go on the services intended for virtual flirtation interest. Certainly, and on such resource probably acquaintance to the future partner in life, but only as an exception.

2. Your behaviour on a site entirely should be based on the purpose of your acquaintance, and the questionnaire – to reflect an appropriate amount. The girl, wishing to find the man for relations should not expose erotic photos, and in the questionnaire to write about the sexual preferences. Sexuality – an integral part of an image. It is good, when it is, worse, when there is no. But to parade it it is not necessary at all since thus, you set the fashion dialogue, and the man will consider you only as sexual object and hardly as mother of its future children. Barefaced sexuality attracts, but only on one-two time.

3. It is not necessary to give out itself for other person. Only if you the virtual also do not plan to transfer acquaintance to a reality. Another's photos or their absence, the latent or incorrectly specified age – the similar facts can be hidden only for the time being. And the sense in it any is not present. If you in an image of other person have got acquainted with the girl or the guy actually it turns out that you have got acquainted not, and the hero thought up by you. It and its parametres have interested the interlocutor. If in plans there is a real meeting hardly the similar surprise will be pleasant unexpectedness. Unexpectedness – yes. Pleasant – is not present. As a result and you, and your new acquaintance will regret for a downtime, therefore the unique possible variant is even in a network to be oneself. It to be pleasant to all – it is not real. And having been oneself, always there is a chance to someone to be pleasant, and further with it to build relations.

4. Photos should be fresh without serious processing and a retouch. To expose unsuccessful photos – all the same, what to sign to itself a sentence, but chances to get acquainted with someone without a photo are equal to zero. Therefore, before to place the questionnaire on a dating site and to start to get acquainted, it is necessary to be puzzled with photosession. It is desirable professional, but it is not obligatory. In a shot there should be only you, without friends, colleagues and other companions. As a background it is not necessary to use a wall carpet what expensive and exclusive it was not. Also it is not necessary to be photographed against kitchen, at an entrance of the house and to photograph the reflexion in a mirror. It is better not to pose, differently risk to stare or pout that is obvious to you not to the person. Ask your photographer to catch the moments that you have turned out as much as possible naturally. And imperfection at all do not retouch. Always there is a chance to go too far so that the image on a photo will cease to coincide with a reality. Smile. The smile and pleasure decorate. Be critical, but are objective. If at you not an ideal figure – at all do not pose in a bathing suit or open clothes – it is better to leave similar photos for house archive. And certainly, it is not necessary to place on a dating site of a photo of five - ten years' prescription, especially if the body has got new rotundities and forms. If you are dissatisfied with yourselves – an occasion to reflect and start something to change. Then it is not necessary to hesitate of the photos.
5. People read biographical particulars. It is not necessary to think that wishing to get acquainted on the Internet, look only at photos. They too read questionnaires and sometimes the specified information are defining, therefore it is better not to be lazy and try to fill all offered fields as much as possible. It is not necessary to compose or say lies – truth will necessarily open. Nobody forbids you to place emphasis on your merits, interests and abilities. The formed, comprehensively developed person always is much more interesting than the one who is engaged in nothing, is interested in nothing. It should be meant. If you are engaged in nothing – are not fond, it is necessary to reflect that is interesting to you and than you would want to be engaged, but for this purpose always there was no time or the company. Write about it. Probably, someone too all life dreamt to be engaged in hand gliding or cultivation of buttercups, and it/it too did not have the company. There is a chance that will converge on this soil …

Besides a choice of a dating site and correct контентной the making questionnaire about which it has been written in the first part of article, it is necessary not to forget about worthy behaviour and a stay main objective on the resource chosen by you.

1. The Internet gives sensation of anonymity which on a dating site can be only on advantage since gives the chance to show the initiative, both to men, and women. Refusal in real is perceived much more painfully, than игнор in a network, т.ч. Can safely write to all who has attracted. Especially, if you of the first/first have seen the interesting, attractive person. The probability is high that he/it and will not notice you.

2. The Internet gives sensation of anonymity, but does not grant to you the right to rudeness. If the person was pleasant – write to it or answer its message. If it was not pleasant – to it/it to know absolutely not necessarily: for what reason. Especially, if it or it even did not try to communicate with you. Similar roughness for which it is impossible to answer – destiny of weak, diffident losers.

3. If someone has written to you before to be engaged in the sample formal reply, familiarise with its/its biographical particulars and a photo. Probably, this person deserves more friendly or detailed answer. Dialogue by terse phrases quickly comes to naught, since the interlocutor does not feel your interest or understands that in parallel with it you still communicate with ten person or are engaged in something for you more important and interesting, and to it answer up to a point.

4. It is not necessary to ignore absolutely interlocutors without photos. In this case it is necessary to pay attention to biographical particulars and messages which are written by this person. If the information specified in the questionnaire is interesting, and texts of messages – are logical, decent and polite, such person should be learnt better. Probably, it/it holds a serious post and does not want to "be shone", is possible – is not photogenic/is photogenic and does not want to spoil impression the unsuccessful photos. But also it is not necessary to be encouraged and draw an image of unearthly beauty strongly. Dialogue with the invisible being is better be not to tightening then strongly not to be disappointed. It is possible to look against each other on скайпу or to ask to throw off photos on a personal mail box or to give the reference to an account in a social network. If the invisible friend refuses all offered variants and does not suggest to arrive and seem alive, it is better to stop similar dialogue. Probably, the person is not free, gives out itself for the one whom is not or business in physical defects, so serious that personal qualities in any way do not compensate external ugliness. Not to be disappointed, not to try to satisfy the curiosity persistently better.

5. Being at home, but sitting on the Internet, it is impossible to feel in absolute safety, because in a virtual reality all same people, as in a reality. And besides lonely, perspective, wishing relations of people there are also swindlers. Therefore, getting acquainted on the Internet, it is necessary to be always on the alert and not to trust itself or the property to new acquaintances. It is not necessary to be afraid of dating sites, it is necessary to be always only vigilant, because a virtual reality – reflexion of our life in which not all so is cloudless.

6. If you замотивированы on result, it is not necessary to tighten with personal meeting. Even correspondence should подпитываться real emotions to the addressee which at the adequate, mentally healthy person cannot arise to the one whom never in life saw. Besides the addressee after any time will be tired of "emotional bond" in a network. Having agreed on a meeting or it having offered, you only confirm that want to get acquainted, serious intentions are interested in the given concrete person and at you. Probably, having met, you will understand that it not that person. Not because it said lies something about itself(himself) or has laid out not the photos. Not because at you about it (about it) has developed incorrectly, representation. What to do, we so are arranged that are always inclined to think out, finish thinking about something to myself. In that case searches will proceed further.

7. If in parallel you correspond at once with very considerable quantity of men or women, it is better to reduce this quantity, having cleaned from it all:

You cannot remember what names in any way;

That, on a meeting or appointment with which you will go, only if there will be absolutely nothing to be engaged,

With what even insignificant errors in messages you strongly irritate because they for you it is more important (error), than the text and sense,

Those who does not show to you a great interest, writes phrases on duty, does not set to you questions about your family, formation, interests and dreams.

When exclude all above-stated – there will be at most 4-5 persons. With them it is possible to continue dialogue and as soon as possible to pass in a reality.